Yuwei:
I had a burglar in my house when I was a child. The burglar stayed under one of the beds in my house for a day and a night and was not discovered until he left. It left a big psychological shadow on me, so to this day, when I am sleeping I would like to have some ambient sound, such as the sound of the TV or a fan, because it makes me feel safe. Otherwise, I always feel like there is someone under my bed.
Are Pa:
My wife is a person who culturally is used to sleeping alone. For me, an esaential part of marriage is sleeping together. I suffer when we sleep alone, and she suffers when we sleep together. There is always one of us who suffers from insomnia, a problem that has plagued us for a long time.
Anonymous：
It’s recently job hunting season and I’m feeling very anxious that my energy will only allow me to do one of these things (like take a graduate school or take a civil service exam, or participate in the fall recruitment process), but I don’t know which life path to choose. I understand that I should have a clear idea of what I want to do in the future, but when faced with a choice I’m worried that I’m making the wrong one. I am so anxious that I can’t sleep every night.